Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Ha good one lolbradd80 said:there's only room for one brad on sosuave
Your a nice brad anyway That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
QFTpipe007 said:
You are just saying that because it's the "cool" thing to say right now. You don't even know what it means. I am really am getting exasperated at the number of guys on here who think being C & F means being an azz to someone just to hurt them. That is so far above and beyond to be extreme. Since when did it become the norm and cool to fawk with a person just because you can? I know that low class citizens with no life do that on the streets while in gangs and such, but fine, reputable, upstanding people? That's an ok thing to do now?cablecow15 said:
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
so a smack in her face while laughing about it doesnt count? how i am supposed to maintain my alphaframe then?cordoncordon said:
You know you have WAY TOO much time on your hands when you are actually giving deep thought in to how you want to hurt some one just because your bored.Zarky said:
you give me chuckles bro:crackup:Zarky said:.
Since this new chick is one of my STRs though, now I have to find another reason to drop her
Well this thread has officially turned to crapcareful there sassygirlie, i'm not always as nice as you think
Umm.. who are you to tell me what the "right amount of money" is? I believed she was going to "lower her price," to use your analogy, and I wanted to nip that sh*t in the bud.
"Dark Triad"
Bla bla bla
Maybe you consider what I was planning to do meaningless and sadistic. But I never "hurt" women without a plan (and it's debatable whether inducing drama into a relationship is "hurting" them). That you didn't see the plan says more about you than me.
Thanks
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
sassygirlie89 said:Why has it turned to crap??
By the way you are still a d*ck
And yes need we keep reminding you that yes you are sadistic and a right creep..
But good luck with whatever you are doing anyway, you seem to be enjoying it
Note to self: Never decide to plan a holiday to Southern California
https://www.facebook.com/photo.php?fbid=3583192534052&set=a.1560828136206.2078144.1100379281&type=3&theatergeorgie24 said:
What does pissed up mean?? Drunk??Purefilth said:you still look pissed up
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
