Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Ha good one lolbradd80 said:there's only room for one brad on sosuave
Your a nice brad anyway You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
QFTpipe007 said:
You are just saying that because it's the "cool" thing to say right now. You don't even know what it means. I am really am getting exasperated at the number of guys on here who think being C & F means being an azz to someone just to hurt them. That is so far above and beyond to be extreme. Since when did it become the norm and cool to fawk with a person just because you can? I know that low class citizens with no life do that on the streets while in gangs and such, but fine, reputable, upstanding people? That's an ok thing to do now?cablecow15 said:
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
so a smack in her face while laughing about it doesnt count? how i am supposed to maintain my alphaframe then?cordoncordon said:
You know you have WAY TOO much time on your hands when you are actually giving deep thought in to how you want to hurt some one just because your bored.Zarky said:
you give me chuckles bro:crackup:Zarky said:.
Since this new chick is one of my STRs though, now I have to find another reason to drop her
Well this thread has officially turned to crapcareful there sassygirlie, i'm not always as nice as you think
Umm.. who are you to tell me what the "right amount of money" is? I believed she was going to "lower her price," to use your analogy, and I wanted to nip that sh*t in the bud.
"Dark Triad"
Bla bla bla
Maybe you consider what I was planning to do meaningless and sadistic. But I never "hurt" women without a plan (and it's debatable whether inducing drama into a relationship is "hurting" them). That you didn't see the plan says more about you than me.
Thanks
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
sassygirlie89 said:Why has it turned to crap??
By the way you are still a d*ck
And yes need we keep reminding you that yes you are sadistic and a right creep..
But good luck with whatever you are doing anyway, you seem to be enjoying it
Note to self: Never decide to plan a holiday to Southern California
https://www.facebook.com/photo.php?fbid=3583192534052&set=a.1560828136206.2078144.1100379281&type=3&theatergeorgie24 said:
What does pissed up mean?? Drunk??Purefilth said:you still look pissed up
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
