"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Places to meet girls

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So I got myself a copy of the 8 week boot camp, and I want to start doing some of the exercises described in the pdf.

I'm 19 so I can't go clubbing, and since I'm new in San Francisco, I don't have any friends in the city that I can go out with. I work from home so I'm basically at my apartment all day, and I live in a pretty sterile part of the city.

Help me brainstorm places where I can meet girls around my age! I want a long enough list so that I can't use lack of places to go as an excuse to not go out at all.

I know girls are everywhere, and I shouldn't have to go to a specific place to find them, but I'm pretty shy and I can't even imagine starting a conversation with some random girl on the street. Since I'm just starting out, I'd prefer places that have a more comfortable atmosphere for approaching girls. For example, it's much easier to talk to someone at a dance class since you're both a part of the class so there's something in common.

Thanks for the help!
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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mall, grocery store, walking, park, any store, any public place outside your home.
 
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I'd also add the gym. Personally, I don't hit on girls there b/c my workout is pretty intense and I'm "in the zone" when it comes to the lifting. However, the gym usually has some attractive women there, so you could definitely try something there.
 
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Girls are everywhere if you ask me. Where is not the question. I usually hit up barnes and noble. Friday through Sunday are usually packed. You'll still see alot of girls on any given day though. I live in Fairfield btw. Not that far from SF. It's about time I make friends with an ansprising DJ.
 
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Bars. Try to scope out a place where lots of singles go. That way you know that many of the girls are there looking to be picked up.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I know girls are everywhere, but as a very shy person who just started to read and learn about this material, I'm a bit freaked out about talking to some random girl in a grocery store.

Obviously I need to get over that fear, but its a lot easier to start a conversation in an environment like a classroom.

also, I can't go to clubs/bars cause I'm not 21 yet.
 
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