"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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So I got myself a copy of the 8 week boot camp, and I want to start doing some of the exercises described in the pdf.

I'm 19 so I can't go clubbing, and since I'm new in San Francisco, I don't have any friends in the city that I can go out with. I work from home so I'm basically at my apartment all day, and I live in a pretty sterile part of the city.

Help me brainstorm places where I can meet girls around my age! I want a long enough list so that I can't use lack of places to go as an excuse to not go out at all.

I know girls are everywhere, and I shouldn't have to go to a specific place to find them, but I'm pretty shy and I can't even imagine starting a conversation with some random girl on the street. Since I'm just starting out, I'd prefer places that have a more comfortable atmosphere for approaching girls. For example, it's much easier to talk to someone at a dance class since you're both a part of the class so there's something in common.

Thanks for the help!
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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mall, grocery store, walking, park, any store, any public place outside your home.
 
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I'd also add the gym. Personally, I don't hit on girls there b/c my workout is pretty intense and I'm "in the zone" when it comes to the lifting. However, the gym usually has some attractive women there, so you could definitely try something there.
 
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Girls are everywhere if you ask me. Where is not the question. I usually hit up barnes and noble. Friday through Sunday are usually packed. You'll still see alot of girls on any given day though. I live in Fairfield btw. Not that far from SF. It's about time I make friends with an ansprising DJ.
 
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Bars. Try to scope out a place where lots of singles go. That way you know that many of the girls are there looking to be picked up.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I know girls are everywhere, but as a very shy person who just started to read and learn about this material, I'm a bit freaked out about talking to some random girl in a grocery store.

Obviously I need to get over that fear, but its a lot easier to start a conversation in an environment like a classroom.

also, I can't go to clubs/bars cause I'm not 21 yet.
 
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