"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
superman2k6
Don Juan
it depends on the type of girl it is, but sometimes I'll go play pool, go bowling, chill at starbucks
or we'll go to the park and have a picnic
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
You want to see the nickel or penny collection?
On these dates, i enjoy doing these things. They are not a means to impress. They are meant to be fun. And if im having fun, you can bet whoever's with me is too
adding:
blowing off fireworks
swinging
playing catch
taking pictures
laser tag
resilient
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Rockclimbing
Rollerblading
Mtn./Race Biking
Walks on the boardwalk / park
Hiking Mtns./ forrest
Snowboarding / skiing
Surfing
Zoo / theme park
Those action dates should help her associate her "fun" factor with you. Much better than sitting down for coffee at starbucks IMO.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
diablo
Master Don Juan
Here's just 2 such results:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/search...d=480733&sortby=lastpost&sortorder=descending
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/search...d=480732&sortby=lastpost&sortorder=descending
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