"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Places to go on dates

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Incident

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Just wondering where some of you go for dates or places for fun

Some of mine are:

Mini-golf
Ice skating
Snowboarding
Board games
Paintball
Bug Catching
Fishing
Kiting

What are some of yours?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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where I live, there's no mini golf or go karting near the CBD and I don't drive so I can't do any of those fun activities like paint balling etc

it depends on the type of girl it is, but sometimes I'll go play pool, go bowling, chill at starbucks

or we'll go to the park and have a picnic
 

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All are pretty decent...except for the fishing one... It just doesn't sound appealing.


Some of mine:

A nice ride

Smoothies

Swimming

Amusement Parks....

Combinations of many things in a few hours.
 

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...bug catching? gosh, if that date goes well you can show her your stamp and coin collections!!!
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Originally posted by Stud
...bug catching? gosh, if that date goes well you can show her your stamp and coin collections!!!
:crackup: right.
 

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...bug catching? gosh, if that date goes well you can show her your stamp and coin collections!!!
You want to see the nickel or penny collection?

On these dates, i enjoy doing these things. They are not a means to impress. They are meant to be fun. And if im having fun, you can bet whoever's with me is too :D

adding:

blowing off fireworks
swinging
playing catch
taking pictures
laser tag
 

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Sailing
Rockclimbing
Rollerblading
Mtn./Race Biking
Walks on the boardwalk / park
Hiking Mtns./ forrest
Snowboarding / skiing
Surfing
Zoo / theme park

Those action dates should help her associate her "fun" factor with you. Much better than sitting down for coffee at starbucks IMO.
 

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mmm..


Rock collecting
Bird watching
Watching cooking channel
word searches
miss mary mack
parcheesey


Nah j.k.

wit my babe we go to the mall..movies..my house..partys all kind of ****.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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