Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Places to go on dates

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Just wondering where some of you go for dates or places for fun

Some of mine are:

Mini-golf
Ice skating
Snowboarding
Board games
Paintball
Bug Catching
Fishing
Kiting

What are some of yours?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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where I live, there's no mini golf or go karting near the CBD and I don't drive so I can't do any of those fun activities like paint balling etc

it depends on the type of girl it is, but sometimes I'll go play pool, go bowling, chill at starbucks

or we'll go to the park and have a picnic
 

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All are pretty decent...except for the fishing one... It just doesn't sound appealing.


Some of mine:

A nice ride

Smoothies

Swimming

Amusement Parks....

Combinations of many things in a few hours.
 

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...bug catching? gosh, if that date goes well you can show her your stamp and coin collections!!!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Originally posted by Stud
...bug catching? gosh, if that date goes well you can show her your stamp and coin collections!!!
:crackup: right.
 

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...bug catching? gosh, if that date goes well you can show her your stamp and coin collections!!!
You want to see the nickel or penny collection?

On these dates, i enjoy doing these things. They are not a means to impress. They are meant to be fun. And if im having fun, you can bet whoever's with me is too :D

adding:

blowing off fireworks
swinging
playing catch
taking pictures
laser tag
 

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Sailing
Rockclimbing
Rollerblading
Mtn./Race Biking
Walks on the boardwalk / park
Hiking Mtns./ forrest
Snowboarding / skiing
Surfing
Zoo / theme park

Those action dates should help her associate her "fun" factor with you. Much better than sitting down for coffee at starbucks IMO.
 

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mmm..


Rock collecting
Bird watching
Watching cooking channel
word searches
miss mary mack
parcheesey


Nah j.k.

wit my babe we go to the mall..movies..my house..partys all kind of ****.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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