"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Here's the deal...

We went to a dance night club a few nights ago for my friends/my birthday, but all the attention was focused squarely on my buddy...all I got was just one of the 10 people I was chillin with to wish me a happy b-day, and when we go to the club the only money he spent was $20 for the cover charge...everyone was buying him drinks...meanwhile I blew $79 all on myself and nobody gave a ****...and on top tis all off, my best friend phone me on my birthday and asked me if I wanted to go costume shopping, and flat out admitted he forgot it was my b-day, which annoyed the living fvck out of me!
Also, I asked him on my b-day to save me some weed since I needed to grab and he promised he would, but when I phoned him two days later he said he sold it all...

all in all, I had fun, but all at MY OWN EXPENSE, ON MY OWN ****ING B-DAY!

Some friends I've got...
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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people were buying him drinks and u just sat there and watched. **** man. What u should have done then was get up off ur ass, and go find a babe to fvck. Let them drink their beer while ur sticking it in a hottie back at ur pad.
 
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haha...I wish...i did dance with lots of hotties and even made out with one while they were pounding their drinks back...I was pretty damn wasted myself too, but I'm pissed to see that no one even seemed to acknowledge that it was my birthday too and I still can't even believe that the dude that I dare to acknowledge as my best friend ever forgot that it was my birthday...oh well...
 
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dont feel too bad man. My friends didnt even wanna go out for my birthday.
 
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u guys have ****ty friends....

on my bday its usually me not wanting to go out and my friends kinda force me..

i like spending bday with family...
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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