jmm854
Master Don Juan
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Pimpology 101: The Don Juan Guide
- Thread starter Pimpologist
- Start date
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
A. I. Kuprin
Don Juan
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De La Soul
Master Don Juan
It's a nice post. My only criticism would be, if anything, that the posts (see especially the conversation posts) are just too damn detailed.
I mean, unless you're planning to refer to notes as you're conversing with someone, it's probably best just to give a few general tips to keep a conversation flowing. Because, as we all know, the best conversations are the ones that simply flow, instead of following a set structure.
DLS
I mean, unless you're planning to refer to notes as you're conversing with someone, it's probably best just to give a few general tips to keep a conversation flowing. Because, as we all know, the best conversations are the ones that simply flow, instead of following a set structure.
DLS
BallZ of SteeL
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damn..alot of these links doesnt work..pimp when you get back please try to re-right those that got deleted..
the rest is great btw!
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~BallZ of SteeL.
a DJ project under heavy construction.
the rest is great btw!
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~BallZ of SteeL.
a DJ project under heavy construction.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Pimpologist
Don Juan
DJ Guide Update
Basic Conversation Techniques
Introduction to Fundamental Question Types
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Pimp’s Responses…
Steel, good idea, I’ll re-post the advice from the discussion forum as part of the next update.
De La, I’ll make note of that in the future. A summary of the main points explained throughout each tip should promote a better understanding of the teachings and allow greater ease in using the techniques and concepts.
As of late I’ve been taking up more of a moderator position and rarely posting. I may, in the future, start posting more frequently but right now all I have time for is helping the boards run smoothly. Some of you may be thinking, “Hey, how come he doesn’t move any threads like the other mods do?” LOL…I’m a “behind the scenes” moderator. I move threads, but I don’t usually reply to them during the process. I appreciate the love, playas…
-Pimp
Basic Conversation Techniques
Introduction to Fundamental Question Types
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Pimp’s Responses…
Steel, good idea, I’ll re-post the advice from the discussion forum as part of the next update.
De La, I’ll make note of that in the future. A summary of the main points explained throughout each tip should promote a better understanding of the teachings and allow greater ease in using the techniques and concepts.
As of late I’ve been taking up more of a moderator position and rarely posting. I may, in the future, start posting more frequently but right now all I have time for is helping the boards run smoothly. Some of you may be thinking, “Hey, how come he doesn’t move any threads like the other mods do?” LOL…I’m a “behind the scenes” moderator. I move threads, but I don’t usually reply to them during the process. I appreciate the love, playas…
-Pimp
BallZ of SteeL
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that question types thread is awsome and inspiring...cant wait for the rest and some more advanced stuff..keep it up man!
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~BallZ of SteeL.
a DJ project under heavy construction.
raven_82
Don Juan
http://www.geocities.com/ciaspymaster/Pimpology.pdf
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I MAKE NO EXCUSES FOR MY DESIRES AS A MAN.
I MAKE NO EXCUSES FOR MYSELF.
I MOVE THROUGH THE WORLD WITHOUT APOLOGY.
"IF you think you can, you can. If you think you can't, you can't. Either way your right."
"Life is what happens while your busy making other plans."
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I MAKE NO EXCUSES FOR MY DESIRES AS A MAN.
I MAKE NO EXCUSES FOR MYSELF.
I MOVE THROUGH THE WORLD WITHOUT APOLOGY.
"IF you think you can, you can. If you think you can't, you can't. Either way your right."
"Life is what happens while your busy making other plans."
Squy
Master Don Juan
Hi, there is something wrong with this file. It pops up the Iexplore (version 6.0) and sent me to the standard Error site. And it even crashed my Acrobat Reader (version 5.0). I'm on Windows 98se.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.