jmm854
Master Don Juan
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Pimpology 101: The Don Juan Guide
- Thread starter Pimpologist
- Start date
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
A. I. Kuprin
Don Juan
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De La Soul
Master Don Juan
It's a nice post. My only criticism would be, if anything, that the posts (see especially the conversation posts) are just too damn detailed.
I mean, unless you're planning to refer to notes as you're conversing with someone, it's probably best just to give a few general tips to keep a conversation flowing. Because, as we all know, the best conversations are the ones that simply flow, instead of following a set structure.
DLS
I mean, unless you're planning to refer to notes as you're conversing with someone, it's probably best just to give a few general tips to keep a conversation flowing. Because, as we all know, the best conversations are the ones that simply flow, instead of following a set structure.
DLS
BallZ of SteeL
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damn..alot of these links doesnt work..pimp when you get back please try to re-right those that got deleted..
the rest is great btw!
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~BallZ of SteeL.
a DJ project under heavy construction.
the rest is great btw!
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~BallZ of SteeL.
a DJ project under heavy construction.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Pimpologist
Don Juan
DJ Guide Update
Basic Conversation Techniques
Introduction to Fundamental Question Types
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Pimp’s Responses…
Steel, good idea, I’ll re-post the advice from the discussion forum as part of the next update.
De La, I’ll make note of that in the future. A summary of the main points explained throughout each tip should promote a better understanding of the teachings and allow greater ease in using the techniques and concepts.
As of late I’ve been taking up more of a moderator position and rarely posting. I may, in the future, start posting more frequently but right now all I have time for is helping the boards run smoothly. Some of you may be thinking, “Hey, how come he doesn’t move any threads like the other mods do?” LOL…I’m a “behind the scenes” moderator. I move threads, but I don’t usually reply to them during the process. I appreciate the love, playas…
-Pimp
Basic Conversation Techniques
Introduction to Fundamental Question Types
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Pimp’s Responses…
Steel, good idea, I’ll re-post the advice from the discussion forum as part of the next update.
De La, I’ll make note of that in the future. A summary of the main points explained throughout each tip should promote a better understanding of the teachings and allow greater ease in using the techniques and concepts.
As of late I’ve been taking up more of a moderator position and rarely posting. I may, in the future, start posting more frequently but right now all I have time for is helping the boards run smoothly. Some of you may be thinking, “Hey, how come he doesn’t move any threads like the other mods do?” LOL…I’m a “behind the scenes” moderator. I move threads, but I don’t usually reply to them during the process. I appreciate the love, playas…
-Pimp
BallZ of SteeL
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that question types thread is awsome and inspiring...cant wait for the rest and some more advanced stuff..keep it up man!
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~BallZ of SteeL.
a DJ project under heavy construction.
raven_82
Don Juan
http://www.geocities.com/ciaspymaster/Pimpology.pdf
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I MAKE NO EXCUSES FOR MY DESIRES AS A MAN.
I MAKE NO EXCUSES FOR MYSELF.
I MOVE THROUGH THE WORLD WITHOUT APOLOGY.
"IF you think you can, you can. If you think you can't, you can't. Either way your right."
"Life is what happens while your busy making other plans."
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I MAKE NO EXCUSES FOR MY DESIRES AS A MAN.
I MAKE NO EXCUSES FOR MYSELF.
I MOVE THROUGH THE WORLD WITHOUT APOLOGY.
"IF you think you can, you can. If you think you can't, you can't. Either way your right."
"Life is what happens while your busy making other plans."
Squy
Master Don Juan
Hi, there is something wrong with this file. It pops up the Iexplore (version 6.0) and sent me to the standard Error site. And it even crashed my Acrobat Reader (version 5.0). I'm on Windows 98se.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.