jmm854
Master Don Juan
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Pimpology 101: The Don Juan Guide
- Thread starter Pimpologist
- Start date
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
A. I. Kuprin
Don Juan
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De La Soul
Master Don Juan
It's a nice post. My only criticism would be, if anything, that the posts (see especially the conversation posts) are just too damn detailed.
I mean, unless you're planning to refer to notes as you're conversing with someone, it's probably best just to give a few general tips to keep a conversation flowing. Because, as we all know, the best conversations are the ones that simply flow, instead of following a set structure.
DLS
I mean, unless you're planning to refer to notes as you're conversing with someone, it's probably best just to give a few general tips to keep a conversation flowing. Because, as we all know, the best conversations are the ones that simply flow, instead of following a set structure.
DLS
BallZ of SteeL
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damn..alot of these links doesnt work..pimp when you get back please try to re-right those that got deleted..
the rest is great btw!
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~BallZ of SteeL.
a DJ project under heavy construction.
the rest is great btw!
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~BallZ of SteeL.
a DJ project under heavy construction.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Pimpologist
Don Juan
DJ Guide Update
Basic Conversation Techniques
Introduction to Fundamental Question Types
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Pimp’s Responses…
Steel, good idea, I’ll re-post the advice from the discussion forum as part of the next update.
De La, I’ll make note of that in the future. A summary of the main points explained throughout each tip should promote a better understanding of the teachings and allow greater ease in using the techniques and concepts.
As of late I’ve been taking up more of a moderator position and rarely posting. I may, in the future, start posting more frequently but right now all I have time for is helping the boards run smoothly. Some of you may be thinking, “Hey, how come he doesn’t move any threads like the other mods do?” LOL…I’m a “behind the scenes” moderator. I move threads, but I don’t usually reply to them during the process. I appreciate the love, playas…
-Pimp
Basic Conversation Techniques
Introduction to Fundamental Question Types
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Pimp’s Responses…
Steel, good idea, I’ll re-post the advice from the discussion forum as part of the next update.
De La, I’ll make note of that in the future. A summary of the main points explained throughout each tip should promote a better understanding of the teachings and allow greater ease in using the techniques and concepts.
As of late I’ve been taking up more of a moderator position and rarely posting. I may, in the future, start posting more frequently but right now all I have time for is helping the boards run smoothly. Some of you may be thinking, “Hey, how come he doesn’t move any threads like the other mods do?” LOL…I’m a “behind the scenes” moderator. I move threads, but I don’t usually reply to them during the process. I appreciate the love, playas…
-Pimp
BallZ of SteeL
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that question types thread is awsome and inspiring...cant wait for the rest and some more advanced stuff..keep it up man!
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~BallZ of SteeL.
a DJ project under heavy construction.
raven_82
Don Juan
http://www.geocities.com/ciaspymaster/Pimpology.pdf
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I MAKE NO EXCUSES FOR MY DESIRES AS A MAN.
I MAKE NO EXCUSES FOR MYSELF.
I MOVE THROUGH THE WORLD WITHOUT APOLOGY.
"IF you think you can, you can. If you think you can't, you can't. Either way your right."
"Life is what happens while your busy making other plans."
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I MAKE NO EXCUSES FOR MY DESIRES AS A MAN.
I MAKE NO EXCUSES FOR MYSELF.
I MOVE THROUGH THE WORLD WITHOUT APOLOGY.
"IF you think you can, you can. If you think you can't, you can't. Either way your right."
"Life is what happens while your busy making other plans."
Squy
Master Don Juan
Hi, there is something wrong with this file. It pops up the Iexplore (version 6.0) and sent me to the standard Error site. And it even crashed my Acrobat Reader (version 5.0). I'm on Windows 98se.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.