"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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pills for concentration problems..mental awarness?

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i was in the pharmacy and i saw that they had pills that supposedly would increase your mental awareness and help you concentrate by transporting more blood to your brain. They contained some natural herbs and some other stuff that i dont remember. Do these pills really work?

Cause I have MAJOR problems with concentration. Like, everytime I sit down to study, something else just suddenly pops up in my head and i end doing that instead of concentrating about my studies. Any tips on how to overcome this?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I suffer from this problem quite badly too and have looked into different methods of concentrating. Yoga breathing exercises seem to work the best for me. It increases circulation and provides more blood/oxygen to the brain (just like these pills). Headstands also serve this purpose.

The big problem is finding the time and place. You can't exactly do a headstand just before an exam and even breathing exercises are a bit difficult to do without attracting attention.

But generally there are a lot of things you can do to increase circulation, oxygen to the brain and thus concentration. Regular exercise, cold showers, deep breathing, diet (the stomach needs blood to digest food so try to eat light before you need you mind the most). Slowing down can also improve concentration considerably.

These things should help, but I'm yet to find something that will totally eliminate my short attention span. If anyone does know of a miracle cure I'd love to hear it.
 

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man, my mom made me take that sh*t when I was 12 so i could have an advantage over the other kids, but now I'm dumber than ever. ..Nah, but they probably work. It depends what kind of pills or dietary supplement your drinking.
 

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Originally posted by Centy
i was in the pharmacy and i saw that they had pills that supposedly would increase your mental awareness and help you concentrate by transporting more blood to your brain. They contained some natural herbs and some other stuff that i dont remember. Do these pills really work?

Cause I have MAJOR problems with concentration. Like, everytime I sit down to study, something else just suddenly pops up in my head and i end doing that instead of concentrating about my studies. Any tips on how to overcome this?
They have pills that will claim to do everything you can fix a price tag to. It doesn't mean they work. Odds are good that the only benefits you'll get from taking them will be from you BELIEVING that they are working, and not from them actually doing anything different to you...

Have you given any consideration to going to your doctor to see if you have an adult form of ADD/ADHD? I'd suggest starting off with some Ritalin...
 

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go to bodybuilding.com and look up nootropics on their message board forums.

I haven't tried any on the products listed yet. But have tried the amino acid tyrosine, which gave me energy.

I've been thinking about trying some of those products.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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