"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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pills for concentration problems..mental awarness?

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i was in the pharmacy and i saw that they had pills that supposedly would increase your mental awareness and help you concentrate by transporting more blood to your brain. They contained some natural herbs and some other stuff that i dont remember. Do these pills really work?

Cause I have MAJOR problems with concentration. Like, everytime I sit down to study, something else just suddenly pops up in my head and i end doing that instead of concentrating about my studies. Any tips on how to overcome this?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I suffer from this problem quite badly too and have looked into different methods of concentrating. Yoga breathing exercises seem to work the best for me. It increases circulation and provides more blood/oxygen to the brain (just like these pills). Headstands also serve this purpose.

The big problem is finding the time and place. You can't exactly do a headstand just before an exam and even breathing exercises are a bit difficult to do without attracting attention.

But generally there are a lot of things you can do to increase circulation, oxygen to the brain and thus concentration. Regular exercise, cold showers, deep breathing, diet (the stomach needs blood to digest food so try to eat light before you need you mind the most). Slowing down can also improve concentration considerably.

These things should help, but I'm yet to find something that will totally eliminate my short attention span. If anyone does know of a miracle cure I'd love to hear it.
 

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man, my mom made me take that sh*t when I was 12 so i could have an advantage over the other kids, but now I'm dumber than ever. ..Nah, but they probably work. It depends what kind of pills or dietary supplement your drinking.
 

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Originally posted by Centy
i was in the pharmacy and i saw that they had pills that supposedly would increase your mental awareness and help you concentrate by transporting more blood to your brain. They contained some natural herbs and some other stuff that i dont remember. Do these pills really work?

Cause I have MAJOR problems with concentration. Like, everytime I sit down to study, something else just suddenly pops up in my head and i end doing that instead of concentrating about my studies. Any tips on how to overcome this?
They have pills that will claim to do everything you can fix a price tag to. It doesn't mean they work. Odds are good that the only benefits you'll get from taking them will be from you BELIEVING that they are working, and not from them actually doing anything different to you...

Have you given any consideration to going to your doctor to see if you have an adult form of ADD/ADHD? I'd suggest starting off with some Ritalin...
 

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go to bodybuilding.com and look up nootropics on their message board forums.

I haven't tried any on the products listed yet. But have tried the amino acid tyrosine, which gave me energy.

I've been thinking about trying some of those products.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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