"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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pills for concentration problems..mental awarness?

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i was in the pharmacy and i saw that they had pills that supposedly would increase your mental awareness and help you concentrate by transporting more blood to your brain. They contained some natural herbs and some other stuff that i dont remember. Do these pills really work?

Cause I have MAJOR problems with concentration. Like, everytime I sit down to study, something else just suddenly pops up in my head and i end doing that instead of concentrating about my studies. Any tips on how to overcome this?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I suffer from this problem quite badly too and have looked into different methods of concentrating. Yoga breathing exercises seem to work the best for me. It increases circulation and provides more blood/oxygen to the brain (just like these pills). Headstands also serve this purpose.

The big problem is finding the time and place. You can't exactly do a headstand just before an exam and even breathing exercises are a bit difficult to do without attracting attention.

But generally there are a lot of things you can do to increase circulation, oxygen to the brain and thus concentration. Regular exercise, cold showers, deep breathing, diet (the stomach needs blood to digest food so try to eat light before you need you mind the most). Slowing down can also improve concentration considerably.

These things should help, but I'm yet to find something that will totally eliminate my short attention span. If anyone does know of a miracle cure I'd love to hear it.
 

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man, my mom made me take that sh*t when I was 12 so i could have an advantage over the other kids, but now I'm dumber than ever. ..Nah, but they probably work. It depends what kind of pills or dietary supplement your drinking.
 

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Originally posted by Centy
i was in the pharmacy and i saw that they had pills that supposedly would increase your mental awareness and help you concentrate by transporting more blood to your brain. They contained some natural herbs and some other stuff that i dont remember. Do these pills really work?

Cause I have MAJOR problems with concentration. Like, everytime I sit down to study, something else just suddenly pops up in my head and i end doing that instead of concentrating about my studies. Any tips on how to overcome this?
They have pills that will claim to do everything you can fix a price tag to. It doesn't mean they work. Odds are good that the only benefits you'll get from taking them will be from you BELIEVING that they are working, and not from them actually doing anything different to you...

Have you given any consideration to going to your doctor to see if you have an adult form of ADD/ADHD? I'd suggest starting off with some Ritalin...
 

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go to bodybuilding.com and look up nootropics on their message board forums.

I haven't tried any on the products listed yet. But have tried the amino acid tyrosine, which gave me energy.

I've been thinking about trying some of those products.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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