"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Piercings: turn on or off?
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Spike_the_cowboy
Master Don Juan
Wow, I'm impressed.
You sure do know alot about thugy body art, Luv. More than me, anyways. You really should go into business with this, seeing as how your such an expert and all.
Why, I'd bet there are alot of people who'd like to get their freak on with such things - I'm not one of them, of course - but there could be alot of money in it for you, and the old 'ball and chain' as well.
Your army man could retire from military service (though, you might have to change your name), and you could live high on the hog - maybe even have your OWN message board on the website where you could sell all the 'body art'. And in that case, you wouldn't even have time for this message board anymore, because you would be far too busy giving advice on how to best deal with piercing infections, tatoo pains, and the dreaded hepatitis d.
It is a vision, a VISION I tell you - and its yours for the taking! Just think of all the financial freedom that you could earn from such an industry. Fast cars, luxury hotels, fine dining, yacht clubs!... you name it, kiddo' it's all yours for the taking! And what better time than right now!
If you need a good shark, I know some numbers. Why they'll break the competition right in half - literally!
Can you see it? I know I can.
Let's build a future!
P.S. Please keep your septer (or whatever you called it) safely in your pants (or wherever it goes), I don't really want to see it, nor do I have any idea what it means to you - I don't think I want to either, no offence intended.
Spike_the_cowboy
Master Don Juan
I never knew my mother anyways... she left before I was born.
LuvMyArmyMan
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its called a SEPTUM piercing, and its a part of your nose.
For once, a woman proves that she is more knowlegable than you in a subject and you go all sarcastic to redeem yourself. Is it that hard to admit that you were wrong?
Thugy body art? hahahaha. whatever, spike, whatever you say. whatever you say.
Spike_the_cowboy
Master Don Juan
Nah, I'm just being a joker. Have you not read my other posts? - I'm pretty humorous about most things...
P.S. The business was MY idea, and don't you forget it either - I know people who know people, who know even more people (and they have friends too!).
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
LuvMyArmyMan
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haha anyways, i dont think i'm "hardcore" enough to be in the body mod industry...i gotta have huge stretched ear lobes, multiple piercings, multiple tattoos (i only have one....a small heart on the inside of my wrist. nuthin special). hahaha. Plus i'd be scared to put holes in people
Spike_the_cowboy
Master Don Juan
Thats the funniest thing I've heard in days...
LoL,
You could just sell the stuff from a website and give advice. That way, you wouldn't have to put holes in anyone!