You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
And they say amazing things don't come out of Ohio...
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
I didn't even recognize her. I think she's average. The whole "modeling" thing is so pretentious to me that it's a turnoff
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v64/philldyznutz/804520716_l.jpg
heres another one you can see her nipples
She looks like she suffers from depression or something. Not into it. Would def smash though.View attachment 7573
Natalie Imbruglia was when she was young and got her breakthrough way back really cute and a natural beauty with almost no use of makeup. (And also note that she has zero plastic surgery done at that time).
I’m always amazed at how many guys are attracted to these artificial, painted up and surgically enhanced women. They are truly unattractive to me, and always have been, even in my youth.
I love naturally beautiful women, the ones who won the genetic lottery and need no enhancement. I realize I’m in the minority but I just can’t fathom how men can be so attracted to artifice. To me these model types are repulsive because I know what’s underneath.
I think it was Patrice O'Neal who said, "pvssy age like bread, not like wine."The actress Selma Hayeck in her prime was beautiful and natural imo. Aged like **** though.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
LOL regarding the Amish. Interestingly, though, I was in Amish country a couple years ago and I noticed there were some extraordinarily attractive young fillies out there.The one I posted is young and natural bro.
Maybe the breasts. But ill give that a pass. Makeup has been around for 1ks of years. American indians wore dress and makeup.
I think men who think this way is just some sort of coping mechanism of some sort. I dont get it. Maybe a desire to go the Amish route like Roosh? I danno
The SMP aka beauty level. Has always been this way. Young fertile women.
Ive seen many models without their makeup and many of them are still smoke shows.
The principle that a man should capture is the ability to ignore her beauty and see her as just another girl.
This comment didn't age wellPosting a pic isn't necessary. Who hasn't seen a picture of Angelina Jolie?
She doesn't look bad at all for her age and no makeupThis comment didn't age well
You have a fondness for Israeli's?
My type is dark hair and blue/green eyes ever since I saw Jennifer Connely (who also happens to be jewish) when i was a kid.You have a fondness for Israeli's?
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.