What I have learned is never just say anthing to a chick while she is walking by. Like nice shoes or hey red is my favorite color. these statements just don't get their attention 99% of the time , Just stop them with a big smile and ask them a question about whatever or where's this or that . By doing this you will increase your confidence and conversation skills. Believe me it will be more fun too, just say "excuse me can I ask you a question"
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
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- Thread starter TheRock
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What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
Spike_the_cowboy
Master Don Juan
Simple. Direct. True.
Great tip.
Great tip.
HappyHobo
Banned
I would say... only ask if you truly need to know something.
I wouldnt make something up just so i can talk to her.
Chasing girls is not what don juan does.
However, striking up converesations here and there is, but not randomly.
There must be some sort of connection first before you can strike up a conversation.
You both can either be doing the same activity, like being the same class, running, or at soem party. Whatever the case is, you need to be on the same level with them.
Dont walk up to girls randomly and ask them questions unless you truly dont know where you are. It is more than likely if you randonmly walked up to a girl and tried to pick her up it would not work unless there is a same level basis established first.
I wouldnt make something up just so i can talk to her.
Chasing girls is not what don juan does.
However, striking up converesations here and there is, but not randomly.
There must be some sort of connection first before you can strike up a conversation.
You both can either be doing the same activity, like being the same class, running, or at soem party. Whatever the case is, you need to be on the same level with them.
Dont walk up to girls randomly and ask them questions unless you truly dont know where you are. It is more than likely if you randonmly walked up to a girl and tried to pick her up it would not work unless there is a same level basis established first.
DJ Alejandro
Senior Don Juan
i did that before.
me: excuse me, can i ask you a question?
her: you already are.
me:
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.