What I have learned is never just say anthing to a chick while she is walking by. Like nice shoes or hey red is my favorite color. these statements just don't get their attention 99% of the time , Just stop them with a big smile and ask them a question about whatever or where's this or that . By doing this you will increase your confidence and conversation skills. Believe me it will be more fun too, just say "excuse me can I ask you a question"
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
pickups on the street
- Thread starter TheRock
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Spike_the_cowboy
Master Don Juan
Simple. Direct. True.
Great tip.
Great tip.
HappyHobo
Banned
I would say... only ask if you truly need to know something.
I wouldnt make something up just so i can talk to her.
Chasing girls is not what don juan does.
However, striking up converesations here and there is, but not randomly.
There must be some sort of connection first before you can strike up a conversation.
You both can either be doing the same activity, like being the same class, running, or at soem party. Whatever the case is, you need to be on the same level with them.
Dont walk up to girls randomly and ask them questions unless you truly dont know where you are. It is more than likely if you randonmly walked up to a girl and tried to pick her up it would not work unless there is a same level basis established first.
I wouldnt make something up just so i can talk to her.
Chasing girls is not what don juan does.
However, striking up converesations here and there is, but not randomly.
There must be some sort of connection first before you can strike up a conversation.
You both can either be doing the same activity, like being the same class, running, or at soem party. Whatever the case is, you need to be on the same level with them.
Dont walk up to girls randomly and ask them questions unless you truly dont know where you are. It is more than likely if you randonmly walked up to a girl and tried to pick her up it would not work unless there is a same level basis established first.
DJ Alejandro
Senior Don Juan
i did that before.
me: excuse me, can i ask you a question?
her: you already are.
me:
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.