"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Picking up women is all about location just like business .

Thechamp

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Location location location just for kicks change your location on tinder for a place you want to visit and see where the women are most attracted to you simple.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Georgepithyou

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Just like how most jobs are in the downtown area, so are most young women. I live 1.5 hours from Downtown Sydney and my local options are very limited. I've always had to travel to get women
 

B80

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Good idea, I'm based in a town of around 300k in UK. Going to test new York on tinder, just for the hell of it.
 

soulforge

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Can you even change the location on Tinder?
 

B80

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Can you even change the location on Tinder?
yeah, may need to pay for 'premium' sub though. can change to anywhere. did try bogota a year back, as you can imagine had good results, compared to UK.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Romanemp22

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I live in a capital and ofcourse options are limitless, when I visit my parents town 30 min away girls there are complete sh1t
 

Guy69JackBlue

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There's an app called "Fake GPS" that is free. I've never tried it for Tinder, but pretty sure it would work. It fools Google.
 

Thechamp

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Just like how most jobs are in the downtown area, so are most young women. I live 1.5 hours from Downtown Sydney and my local options are very limited. I've always had to travel to get women I
live in perth it’s worse lol
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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