"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Picking up women in Germany

steveoo5

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any guys have any expereince with other countries, or picking up girls who don't really speak english?

I moved to germany last month and not sure what to do,

I get looks but don't know how to act on them, also I check women out as if they I am sight seeing and they are the sight to see,

there are just so many beautiful girls I think my sub conscience is afraid to say anything to any of them because I might see a better one and not be avalible,or something like that,:confused:


thanks
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Firefly

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German women are both insanely hot, and very sexually liberated.

The last time, I was there I met a girl at a friend's party. She invited me out for the drinks the next day, got me drunk on ****tails which she paid for, and we had an awesome (if somewhat blurry) one night stand.

They also find English speakers hot, so you have the advantage. Just go talk to them, and maybe use their "limited" English as a reason to tease them - they usually speak flawless English but don't believe that they do, so you can use it as an excuse to make fun of the,/
 

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Hey Steve,
i live in Germany and can only say so much: same game than in US but without that mystery pseudo game pua stuff. Be smooth and direct. Germany is not prude as the US ;)
Where did you move to?
 

Huffman

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Man you guys must have been to a different Germany than the one I grew up in ;)

But Mace is correct, most of the PUA stuff won't work. I always thought these "c&f neg hit lines" are way over the top. German girls will think you're an idiot. You can do some of them for sh!ts&giggles though.

Anyway, you're a foreigner so just be confident. I saw a lot of foreigners (also americans) being really shy and afraid they might make mistakes... don't. Germans are VERY open to everything, and they love foreigners (=you).
The girls will love stories about your home country, so tell them exciting stuff, even if you think your home is boring lol!
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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BigJimbo

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Huffman said:
Man you guys must have been to a different Germany than the one I grew up in ;)
That is because they are 15 year old boys in New Jersey typing that stuff!! Germans are more prudish than Americans in MANY ways. I won't even get into the fact that the REAL Germany is quickly becoming more and more Islamic. Turks, Bosnians, Albanians, etc. are all over the bigger cities. You can hear the Call to Prayer in many neighborhoods. That is the real Germany. Not the one that is in the mind of a boy in New Jersey.

If German females are "hot" to you I shudder to think what would go through your mind if you went to more eastern countries. Even Poland and Czech Republic make Germany look like crap.
 

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Acutally the Germany I live in is a very different Germany from the one you describe Jimbo.
I am living like 80km from Frankfurt. If you want you can join for some college Party
 
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