"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Picking up women in Germany

steveoo5

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any guys have any expereince with other countries, or picking up girls who don't really speak english?

I moved to germany last month and not sure what to do,

I get looks but don't know how to act on them, also I check women out as if they I am sight seeing and they are the sight to see,

there are just so many beautiful girls I think my sub conscience is afraid to say anything to any of them because I might see a better one and not be avalible,or something like that,:confused:


thanks
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Firefly

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German women are both insanely hot, and very sexually liberated.

The last time, I was there I met a girl at a friend's party. She invited me out for the drinks the next day, got me drunk on ****tails which she paid for, and we had an awesome (if somewhat blurry) one night stand.

They also find English speakers hot, so you have the advantage. Just go talk to them, and maybe use their "limited" English as a reason to tease them - they usually speak flawless English but don't believe that they do, so you can use it as an excuse to make fun of the,/
 

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Hey Steve,
i live in Germany and can only say so much: same game than in US but without that mystery pseudo game pua stuff. Be smooth and direct. Germany is not prude as the US ;)
Where did you move to?
 

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Man you guys must have been to a different Germany than the one I grew up in ;)

But Mace is correct, most of the PUA stuff won't work. I always thought these "c&f neg hit lines" are way over the top. German girls will think you're an idiot. You can do some of them for sh!ts&giggles though.

Anyway, you're a foreigner so just be confident. I saw a lot of foreigners (also americans) being really shy and afraid they might make mistakes... don't. Germans are VERY open to everything, and they love foreigners (=you).
The girls will love stories about your home country, so tell them exciting stuff, even if you think your home is boring lol!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Huffman said:
Man you guys must have been to a different Germany than the one I grew up in ;)
That is because they are 15 year old boys in New Jersey typing that stuff!! Germans are more prudish than Americans in MANY ways. I won't even get into the fact that the REAL Germany is quickly becoming more and more Islamic. Turks, Bosnians, Albanians, etc. are all over the bigger cities. You can hear the Call to Prayer in many neighborhoods. That is the real Germany. Not the one that is in the mind of a boy in New Jersey.

If German females are "hot" to you I shudder to think what would go through your mind if you went to more eastern countries. Even Poland and Czech Republic make Germany look like crap.
 

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Acutally the Germany I live in is a very different Germany from the one you describe Jimbo.
I am living like 80km from Frankfurt. If you want you can join for some college Party
 
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