"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Picking up women in Germany

steveoo5

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any guys have any expereince with other countries, or picking up girls who don't really speak english?

I moved to germany last month and not sure what to do,

I get looks but don't know how to act on them, also I check women out as if they I am sight seeing and they are the sight to see,

there are just so many beautiful girls I think my sub conscience is afraid to say anything to any of them because I might see a better one and not be avalible,or something like that,:confused:


thanks
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Firefly

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German women are both insanely hot, and very sexually liberated.

The last time, I was there I met a girl at a friend's party. She invited me out for the drinks the next day, got me drunk on ****tails which she paid for, and we had an awesome (if somewhat blurry) one night stand.

They also find English speakers hot, so you have the advantage. Just go talk to them, and maybe use their "limited" English as a reason to tease them - they usually speak flawless English but don't believe that they do, so you can use it as an excuse to make fun of the,/
 

Mace

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Hey Steve,
i live in Germany and can only say so much: same game than in US but without that mystery pseudo game pua stuff. Be smooth and direct. Germany is not prude as the US ;)
Where did you move to?
 

Huffman

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Man you guys must have been to a different Germany than the one I grew up in ;)

But Mace is correct, most of the PUA stuff won't work. I always thought these "c&f neg hit lines" are way over the top. German girls will think you're an idiot. You can do some of them for sh!ts&giggles though.

Anyway, you're a foreigner so just be confident. I saw a lot of foreigners (also americans) being really shy and afraid they might make mistakes... don't. Germans are VERY open to everything, and they love foreigners (=you).
The girls will love stories about your home country, so tell them exciting stuff, even if you think your home is boring lol!
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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BigJimbo

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Huffman said:
Man you guys must have been to a different Germany than the one I grew up in ;)
That is because they are 15 year old boys in New Jersey typing that stuff!! Germans are more prudish than Americans in MANY ways. I won't even get into the fact that the REAL Germany is quickly becoming more and more Islamic. Turks, Bosnians, Albanians, etc. are all over the bigger cities. You can hear the Call to Prayer in many neighborhoods. That is the real Germany. Not the one that is in the mind of a boy in New Jersey.

If German females are "hot" to you I shudder to think what would go through your mind if you went to more eastern countries. Even Poland and Czech Republic make Germany look like crap.
 

Mace

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Acutally the Germany I live in is a very different Germany from the one you describe Jimbo.
I am living like 80km from Frankfurt. If you want you can join for some college Party
 
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