Hey guys, I'm just looking for a list of normal places (not including a mall) where you think are good places to pick up women/girls (I'm 18 so highschool girls are still ok, even preferred, as most girls my age went off to college). And I'm also looking for some of the strategies you guys use being the PUA's that you are to pick up girls at these regular places, such as the gym, a supermarket, or anything else you guys can come up with. Thanks.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Picking up girls...Where and how?
- Thread starter Eiljwa
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
onthepath
Don Juan
if you're up for "daygame" then LITERALLY EVERYWHERE!
Lord Shinra
Senior Don Juan
Daygame is great.
At night, bookstores are pretty good, unless its been tapped already.
At night, bookstores are pretty good, unless its been tapped already.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
YES you should do some daygame because you probably cant even do night game at a club yet. I do lots of day game on the weekends and it's pretty fun ..well to me anyway lol, What I would say is look for the hangout in your city I mean mine is the Movies(Pathetic right) and usually I will go swing by and start to game on some girls there. You just gotta go find out where all the girls are at and if you can find out where the partys are at then you are golden because even if you werent invited noone will care because everyone is already to wasted to care unless they hated you or something like that. What's even better about day game is you can get them to go on minidates with you you know say if your at the mall or something TELL them to walk with you for a while so you can get to know them better. Good luck.