Hey guys, I'm just looking for a list of normal places (not including a mall) where you think are good places to pick up women/girls (I'm 18 so highschool girls are still ok, even preferred, as most girls my age went off to college). And I'm also looking for some of the strategies you guys use being the PUA's that you are to pick up girls at these regular places, such as the gym, a supermarket, or anything else you guys can come up with. Thanks.
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Picking up girls...Where and how?
- Thread starter Eiljwa
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
onthepath
Don Juan
if you're up for "daygame" then LITERALLY EVERYWHERE!
Lord Shinra
Senior Don Juan
Daygame is great.
At night, bookstores are pretty good, unless its been tapped already.
At night, bookstores are pretty good, unless its been tapped already.
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Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
YES you should do some daygame because you probably cant even do night game at a club yet. I do lots of day game on the weekends and it's pretty fun ..well to me anyway lol, What I would say is look for the hangout in your city I mean mine is the Movies(Pathetic right) and usually I will go swing by and start to game on some girls there. You just gotta go find out where all the girls are at and if you can find out where the partys are at then you are golden because even if you werent invited noone will care because everyone is already to wasted to care unless they hated you or something like that. What's even better about day game is you can get them to go on minidates with you you know say if your at the mall or something TELL them to walk with you for a while so you can get to know them better. Good luck.