Hey guys, I'm just looking for a list of normal places (not including a mall) where you think are good places to pick up women/girls (I'm 18 so highschool girls are still ok, even preferred, as most girls my age went off to college). And I'm also looking for some of the strategies you guys use being the PUA's that you are to pick up girls at these regular places, such as the gym, a supermarket, or anything else you guys can come up with. Thanks.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Picking up girls...Where and how?
- Thread starter Eiljwa
- Start date
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
onthepath
Don Juan
if you're up for "daygame" then LITERALLY EVERYWHERE!
Lord Shinra
Senior Don Juan
Daygame is great.
At night, bookstores are pretty good, unless its been tapped already.
At night, bookstores are pretty good, unless its been tapped already.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
YES you should do some daygame because you probably cant even do night game at a club yet. I do lots of day game on the weekends and it's pretty fun ..well to me anyway lol, What I would say is look for the hangout in your city I mean mine is the Movies(Pathetic right) and usually I will go swing by and start to game on some girls there. You just gotta go find out where all the girls are at and if you can find out where the partys are at then you are golden because even if you werent invited noone will care because everyone is already to wasted to care unless they hated you or something like that. What's even better about day game is you can get them to go on minidates with you you know say if your at the mall or something TELL them to walk with you for a while so you can get to know them better. Good luck.