"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Picking up girls is easy

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Seriously.... think of what it takes to pick-up a girl.

You have to walk up to her, talk for a couple seconds and then ask for her number. HOW IS THIS HARD AT ALL?? What is the difficult part? Walking or talking? Those are simple tasks that even a 2 year-old can complete. Most of you have atleast 20 years of walking and talking experience.. you should be pretty good at it by now.


I ask ever girl out on the street I see. There's only two possible outcomes. Either she says yes and gives me her number... or she says she's in a relationship and doesn't. If she doesn't give you her number.. she'll be extremely flattered that she got asked out. Women absolutely love being asked out. It makes em feel great. So, even if you don't get a the girls number... you still completely made her day by asking her out. :yes: happy hunting my friends.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Htienvu

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we all know the process is that easy, yet we all struggle. It's funny really!
 
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thedude4242

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getting some initial attraction and a phone number is so easy to me. it is the part after that, that is hard for me. all PUA's cover this and that is about it.
 
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thedude4242 said:
getting some initial attraction and a phone number is so easy to me. it is the part after that, that is hard for me. all PUA's cover this and that is about it.
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Me too wonders why one never gets to see videos of 1st date, 2nd date etc like one gets to see pickup videos.
 
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Szyzzlin said:
Seriously.... think of what it takes to pick-up a girl.

You have to walk up to her, talk for a couple seconds and then ask for her number. HOW IS THIS HARD AT ALL?? What is the difficult part? Walking or talking? Those are simple tasks that even a 2 year-old can complete. Most of you have atleast 20 years of walking and talking experience.. you should be pretty good at it by now.


I ask ever girl out on the street I see. There's only two possible outcomes. Either she says yes and gives me her number... or she says she's in a relationship and doesn't. If she doesn't give you her number.. she'll be extremely flattered that she got asked out. Women absolutely love being asked out. It makes em feel great. So, even if you don't get a the girls number... you still completely made her day by asking her out. :yes: happy hunting my friends.
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Yes, it's easy as hell to get a phone number. Getting an actual date, sex, relationship can be quite tough off of a 2-3 second cold approach.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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It is psychology that interferes my friend.

But we must move past it! :)
 
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I suck at the pick-up, but when I get them out, my fvck ratio is probably 90%
I usually wait for who ever I'm hanging with to open with some chicks, and I swoop in...
I'm working on improving the pick-up, because I feel like I'm getting chicks that choose me, which i've had some hot ones... But much better to choose you own...
 
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talking to girls can be scary

lets say your at the mall and see a chick posted at the mall you dont know if she
1)is there with her boyfriend who could be in the bathroom at the moment or something
2)one of those chicks that doesnt like to get hit on
3)you might know what to say when your walking towards her but when you get there you might get that nervous silence thing going where you cant talk..etc..


stuff like that
 
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irocknike23 said:
talking to girls can be scary

lets say your at the mall and see a chick posted at the mall you dont know if she
1)is there with her boyfriend who could be in the bathroom at the moment or something
2)one of those chicks that doesnt like to get hit on
3)you might know what to say when your walking towards her but when you get there you might get that nervous silence thing going where you cant talk..etc..


stuff like that
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1) If you don't wanna get your ass kicked, just say you didn't realize she was with someone and walk away. Rarely will a guy do anything more than give you a bad look.

2) If she doesn't want to get hit on, she will say no when you try. No way for you to know until you try, so try.

3) Practice helps. Find openings that tend to get her to talk a bit more, then use your listening skills to keep it going.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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