"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Picking up girls is easy

Szyzzlin

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Seriously.... think of what it takes to pick-up a girl.

You have to walk up to her, talk for a couple seconds and then ask for her number. HOW IS THIS HARD AT ALL?? What is the difficult part? Walking or talking? Those are simple tasks that even a 2 year-old can complete. Most of you have atleast 20 years of walking and talking experience.. you should be pretty good at it by now.


I ask ever girl out on the street I see. There's only two possible outcomes. Either she says yes and gives me her number... or she says she's in a relationship and doesn't. If she doesn't give you her number.. she'll be extremely flattered that she got asked out. Women absolutely love being asked out. It makes em feel great. So, even if you don't get a the girls number... you still completely made her day by asking her out. :yes: happy hunting my friends.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Htienvu

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we all know the process is that easy, yet we all struggle. It's funny really!
 

thedude4242

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getting some initial attraction and a phone number is so easy to me. it is the part after that, that is hard for me. all PUA's cover this and that is about it.
 
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thedude4242 said:
getting some initial attraction and a phone number is so easy to me. it is the part after that, that is hard for me. all PUA's cover this and that is about it.
Me too wonders why one never gets to see videos of 1st date, 2nd date etc like one gets to see pickup videos.
 

btownbuck2012

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Szyzzlin said:
Seriously.... think of what it takes to pick-up a girl.

You have to walk up to her, talk for a couple seconds and then ask for her number. HOW IS THIS HARD AT ALL?? What is the difficult part? Walking or talking? Those are simple tasks that even a 2 year-old can complete. Most of you have atleast 20 years of walking and talking experience.. you should be pretty good at it by now.


I ask ever girl out on the street I see. There's only two possible outcomes. Either she says yes and gives me her number... or she says she's in a relationship and doesn't. If she doesn't give you her number.. she'll be extremely flattered that she got asked out. Women absolutely love being asked out. It makes em feel great. So, even if you don't get a the girls number... you still completely made her day by asking her out. :yes: happy hunting my friends.
Yes, it's easy as hell to get a phone number. Getting an actual date, sex, relationship can be quite tough off of a 2-3 second cold approach.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Alex DeLarge

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It is psychology that interferes my friend.

But we must move past it! :)
 

movistar

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I suck at the pick-up, but when I get them out, my fvck ratio is probably 90%
I usually wait for who ever I'm hanging with to open with some chicks, and I swoop in...
I'm working on improving the pick-up, because I feel like I'm getting chicks that choose me, which i've had some hot ones... But much better to choose you own...
 

irocknike23

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talking to girls can be scary

lets say your at the mall and see a chick posted at the mall you dont know if she
1)is there with her boyfriend who could be in the bathroom at the moment or something
2)one of those chicks that doesnt like to get hit on
3)you might know what to say when your walking towards her but when you get there you might get that nervous silence thing going where you cant talk..etc..


stuff like that
 

PDubb75

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irocknike23 said:
talking to girls can be scary

lets say your at the mall and see a chick posted at the mall you dont know if she
1)is there with her boyfriend who could be in the bathroom at the moment or something
2)one of those chicks that doesnt like to get hit on
3)you might know what to say when your walking towards her but when you get there you might get that nervous silence thing going where you cant talk..etc..


stuff like that
1) If you don't wanna get your ass kicked, just say you didn't realize she was with someone and walk away. Rarely will a guy do anything more than give you a bad look.

2) If she doesn't want to get hit on, she will say no when you try. No way for you to know until you try, so try.

3) Practice helps. Find openings that tend to get her to talk a bit more, then use your listening skills to keep it going.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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