“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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picking up girl in salsa lessons

pyros

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Hi.

I go twice per week to salsa lessons. Here there are some cute girls that come as regular as me.
General scenario is:
I go there, we start the lesson, we switch partners, I dance with a girl I like...we chitchat...


What would be the best option to pick up one of these girls I like?

A) First time I see one I like, we dance, I ask her some questions during the class or at the end of it...
talk for a bit and get her number? all this during this first encounter.

or

B) Since I'll keep seing them for weeks, I try to build rapport, talk for a bit one time,
talk for a bit more another time...get to know her a bit, get her number and ask her out
some other time?


I do not want to look desperate trying to inmediately pick up a girl I like in my salsa class the first time I meet her, you know?
but maybe I'm wrong?


Thanks.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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atree

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First of all I'm a newbie however...

I did some salsa classes for a bit and I scored with one. What I did was suggest going out and practicing salsa at a club, you know 'we could really show the rest of the class up if we practiced a little more'. Try to find a club that isn't full of absolute stars though as you might find it's a bit too much. Also, try and chat on the way to the bus stop or something without anyone else around. However, as I'm a newbie, I don't know what to do if you want to score with all the girls in the class!
 

VladPatton

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I submit Option (B).

Good luck
 

Die Hard

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Yes, option B!

And make sure you learn how to dance 'Bachata'. DJ's at salsaparties often mix the music up with Bachata songs and this dance can become very intimate (as opposed to salsa).
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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