"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Pick ups during a date?
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Now if you do it in the right amount i.e. talk in a friendly and bordering flirty manner, it can work to your advantage.
Your date will see that you are socially adept and desirable to other women, thus raising your value in her eyes.
It can also weed out any over-bearing and insecure paranoid types early on if she totally freaks out at you just conversing with another chicky.
Now unless you know how to balance this and do it in the right amounts, I wouldnt try it on a first 'date'. Not that it isnt possible, but I wouldnt be getting numbers from women in front of her or anything similar out of common courtesy and respect. You would put up with her doing that to you would you?
Hope that helps.
MacDiddy
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What you'll incite in her is JEALOUSY and this can be such a powerful tool in increasing IL. Imagine back when you were jealous about your target flirting with someone. Did it put your mind into overdrive thinking of ways you could make her yours. You probably already made her yours in your mind and feel anyone else talking to her as a threat on your property. The same applies to your date. Not only will she see you as of higher value, but your advances will be met with less resistance, because her natural instinct is to deal with competition and she doesn't want to lose.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
maranathaman
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Most women HATE/DESPISE when there date or bf is checking-out other women, let-alone actually hitting on them.
Concentrate on the task at hand.... your date.
There will be plenty of opportunities to meet other women when you are not on your date. How would you like it if your date was flirting with other guys or giving them her number while supposedly on a date with you?
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MacDiddy
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Its to be used as a tool of soliticiting jealousy and introducing an element of competition.
say you caught your date exchanging phone numbers with some dude and she brushed it of with some lame excuse, you wouldn't blow your trumpet and end the date. You'd play it cool, ask her what all that was about and crank up the charm offensive and in effect act more AFC. Why??? Coz your jealous.
Haha I tried this once on a girl I was dating for 2 months. Brought her to a social dinner and I was talking to this girl and this girl asked me who this other girl was in front of her. I told this other girl (who i found attractive but wasn't sure) that "Oh she's just a friend." - needless to say my gal was pissed!Originally posted by Nameless
There are limitations on how far you can go before your date will be offended.
Now if you do it in the right amount i.e. talk in a friendly and bordering flirty manner, it can work to your advantage.
Your date will see that you are socially adept and desirable to other women, thus raising your value in her eyes.
It can also weed out any over-bearing and insecure paranoid types early on if she totally freaks out at you just conversing with another chicky.
Now unless you know how to balance this and do it in the right amounts, I wouldnt try it on a first 'date'. Not that it isnt possible, but I wouldnt be getting numbers from women in front of her or anything similar out of common courtesy and respect. You would put up with her doing that to you would you?
Hope that helps.
Girls have done the reversi and said this to me, I acted indifferent.
You see, the girl that wants to be with you will be pissed, but if you get pissed it shows how immature you are. Infact... if she says you're "just a friend" then act ignorant/cold around her. Again, watch her reaction..if she starts spanking your butt for attention then obviously she doesn't consider you her friend.
Note: You can play this drama game only if the girl (who said "Oh you're just a friend" or vice versa) has been going out with you for some time.