Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Pick up in gym?

Charm2K

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How do you approach woman in gym?

I know you guys aint saying "so u come here often?"

Give me some good tips.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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SecondHalf

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Just this week I got a phone number from someone I met in the gym.
I asked her questions regarding why she used the exercise ball to do her crunchy's with.
Worked like a charm, she showed me a bunch of uses with the ball as I stared at her tights (didn't have to look away for once :).
Joke, flirt, joke, flirt then asked her if she wanted to have a coffee after the workout. She did, got the number.

SH
 

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Thats a good tip!

Ask the girl for a tip on how to use something !

Thumbs Up!
 

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ehhh.. I have a distaste for hitting on what I call a "captive audience." It's like hitting on waitresses and bartenders, IMHO. The chicks are there to do one thing, they probably don't have other places to go to do it, and you're using that captivity to make them less likely to reject you.

It just feels bad to me, though it's probably been done since the beginning of time. Hanging around the only watering hole on the savanna because the chicks have to show up there at some point.

To me, bar, club, or even grocery store pickups would feel less ew.

But I digress. If you're going to pick up chicks in captive areas like that, it's even more work than street pickups IMHO. Because for you not to be labeled "the guy who hits on all the chicks" or even asked to leave the place, you have to spend a lot of time chatting chicks up in a friendly way and being friends with everyone. The best would be if you turned the entire gym into your "social circle" and then pulled from that circle. You wouldn't see returns right away but after 3-6 months you could probably be hitting chicks fairly regularly.
 

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Re Zarky

I dont want to waste 3-6 months on building some rapport with everyone in the gym. If i see something i like, i like to get down to bussniess right away.

And yes the chicks wants to be picked up in the gym aswell, why were all the make up and look so damn tasty.... :)

Cheers!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Boilermaker

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Charm2K said:
If i see something i like, i like to get down to bussniess right away.
Oh yeah. Who wouldn't want that?

Except that it doesn't work that way. Guess you need to read what Zarky is saying more carefully.

Zarky said:
Hanging around the only watering hole on the savanna because the chicks have to show up there at some point.
So true.

:crackup:
 

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OP, if you can show up as a nobody in a gym and pull tail by cold hitting on chicks there without building some sort of rapport with both the men and women there first, then more power to you. You should write memoirs to let us know how it's done.
 
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