“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Pick up in gym?

Charm2K

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How do you approach woman in gym?

I know you guys aint saying "so u come here often?"

Give me some good tips.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Just this week I got a phone number from someone I met in the gym.
I asked her questions regarding why she used the exercise ball to do her crunchy's with.
Worked like a charm, she showed me a bunch of uses with the ball as I stared at her tights (didn't have to look away for once :).
Joke, flirt, joke, flirt then asked her if she wanted to have a coffee after the workout. She did, got the number.

SH
 

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Thats a good tip!

Ask the girl for a tip on how to use something !

Thumbs Up!
 

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ehhh.. I have a distaste for hitting on what I call a "captive audience." It's like hitting on waitresses and bartenders, IMHO. The chicks are there to do one thing, they probably don't have other places to go to do it, and you're using that captivity to make them less likely to reject you.

It just feels bad to me, though it's probably been done since the beginning of time. Hanging around the only watering hole on the savanna because the chicks have to show up there at some point.

To me, bar, club, or even grocery store pickups would feel less ew.

But I digress. If you're going to pick up chicks in captive areas like that, it's even more work than street pickups IMHO. Because for you not to be labeled "the guy who hits on all the chicks" or even asked to leave the place, you have to spend a lot of time chatting chicks up in a friendly way and being friends with everyone. The best would be if you turned the entire gym into your "social circle" and then pulled from that circle. You wouldn't see returns right away but after 3-6 months you could probably be hitting chicks fairly regularly.
 

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Re Zarky

I dont want to waste 3-6 months on building some rapport with everyone in the gym. If i see something i like, i like to get down to bussniess right away.

And yes the chicks wants to be picked up in the gym aswell, why were all the make up and look so damn tasty.... :)

Cheers!
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Charm2K said:
If i see something i like, i like to get down to bussniess right away.
Oh yeah. Who wouldn't want that?

Except that it doesn't work that way. Guess you need to read what Zarky is saying more carefully.

Zarky said:
Hanging around the only watering hole on the savanna because the chicks have to show up there at some point.
So true.

:crackup:
 

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OP, if you can show up as a nobody in a gym and pull tail by cold hitting on chicks there without building some sort of rapport with both the men and women there first, then more power to you. You should write memoirs to let us know how it's done.
 
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