"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Pick up in gym?
- Thread starter Charm2K
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
SecondHalf
Master Don Juan
I asked her questions regarding why she used the exercise ball to do her crunchy's with.
Worked like a charm, she showed me a bunch of uses with the ball as I stared at her tights (didn't have to look away for once
.Joke, flirt, joke, flirt then asked her if she wanted to have a coffee after the workout. She did, got the number.
SH
It just feels bad to me, though it's probably been done since the beginning of time. Hanging around the only watering hole on the savanna because the chicks have to show up there at some point.
To me, bar, club, or even grocery store pickups would feel less ew.
But I digress. If you're going to pick up chicks in captive areas like that, it's even more work than street pickups IMHO. Because for you not to be labeled "the guy who hits on all the chicks" or even asked to leave the place, you have to spend a lot of time chatting chicks up in a friendly way and being friends with everyone. The best would be if you turned the entire gym into your "social circle" and then pulled from that circle. You wouldn't see returns right away but after 3-6 months you could probably be hitting chicks fairly regularly.
Charm2K
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I dont want to waste 3-6 months on building some rapport with everyone in the gym. If i see something i like, i like to get down to bussniess right away.
And yes the chicks wants to be picked up in the gym aswell, why were all the make up and look so damn tasty....
Cheers!
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
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Oh yeah. Who wouldn't want that?Charm2K said:
Except that it doesn't work that way. Guess you need to read what Zarky is saying more carefully.
So true.Zarky said:
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