"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Pick-up Help - Cashier HB7

Yuma

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There's a cashier at a local coffee place here, and she's really damn cute.

I've talked to her a couple of times - the girl is pretty cool. Total flower-child, big eyes, two-tone hair... really nice body. I went to get a cup of coffee last weekend before I went to Santa Cruz to visit one of my best friends (another fine hottie - and amazing social proof). So, HB7 and I talked a bit about things to do in Santa Cruz - she mentioned something about Lost Boys being filmed there and we talked movies for a bit. But that's really the only interaction we've had outside of smiles and hellos.

I want her number. I'd love to take her out. (and fvck her).


Any advice on picking up a girl you only see while she's working?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Gangster Of Love

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For flower child/granola types with great attitudes:

"Hey, you really have great energy. Are you always happy?"

Then you invite her to get together.
 

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Excellent. I'm definitely gonna use that.

Man, it sucks getting back into the game after a LTR. I was straight retired. But, if I can bag this one, it's a good damn start.
 

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Yes, chicks with great attitudes should always get rewarded with your sausage!
 

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This is what I love about San Francisco, man - the women. So many 8/9's everywhere.

There's this girl, and there's a bartender at the bar my wingman and I go to a lot. Super sexy - but the IOI's are hard to read, because... you know, she's paid to flirt for tips.

I've always equated bartenders with strippers - makes you feel great for a bit, but it'll probably never happen. Got any advice for that?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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invite your hot friend to join you for coffee there. let the barista see. flirt you ass off with your friend and get her laughing really hard so she can hear. invite her for a drink at a nearby bar after her shift.
 
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