"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Pick-up Help - Cashier HB7

Yuma

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There's a cashier at a local coffee place here, and she's really damn cute.

I've talked to her a couple of times - the girl is pretty cool. Total flower-child, big eyes, two-tone hair... really nice body. I went to get a cup of coffee last weekend before I went to Santa Cruz to visit one of my best friends (another fine hottie - and amazing social proof). So, HB7 and I talked a bit about things to do in Santa Cruz - she mentioned something about Lost Boys being filmed there and we talked movies for a bit. But that's really the only interaction we've had outside of smiles and hellos.

I want her number. I'd love to take her out. (and fvck her).


Any advice on picking up a girl you only see while she's working?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Gangster Of Love

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For flower child/granola types with great attitudes:

"Hey, you really have great energy. Are you always happy?"

Then you invite her to get together.
 

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Excellent. I'm definitely gonna use that.

Man, it sucks getting back into the game after a LTR. I was straight retired. But, if I can bag this one, it's a good damn start.
 

Gangster Of Love

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Yes, chicks with great attitudes should always get rewarded with your sausage!
 

Yuma

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This is what I love about San Francisco, man - the women. So many 8/9's everywhere.

There's this girl, and there's a bartender at the bar my wingman and I go to a lot. Super sexy - but the IOI's are hard to read, because... you know, she's paid to flirt for tips.

I've always equated bartenders with strippers - makes you feel great for a bit, but it'll probably never happen. Got any advice for that?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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thevilittletroll

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invite your hot friend to join you for coffee there. let the barista see. flirt you ass off with your friend and get her laughing really hard so she can hear. invite her for a drink at a nearby bar after her shift.
 
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