"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Pick-up Help - Cashier HB7

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There's a cashier at a local coffee place here, and she's really damn cute.

I've talked to her a couple of times - the girl is pretty cool. Total flower-child, big eyes, two-tone hair... really nice body. I went to get a cup of coffee last weekend before I went to Santa Cruz to visit one of my best friends (another fine hottie - and amazing social proof). So, HB7 and I talked a bit about things to do in Santa Cruz - she mentioned something about Lost Boys being filmed there and we talked movies for a bit. But that's really the only interaction we've had outside of smiles and hellos.

I want her number. I'd love to take her out. (and fvck her).


Any advice on picking up a girl you only see while she's working?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Gangster Of Love

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For flower child/granola types with great attitudes:

"Hey, you really have great energy. Are you always happy?"

Then you invite her to get together.
 

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Excellent. I'm definitely gonna use that.

Man, it sucks getting back into the game after a LTR. I was straight retired. But, if I can bag this one, it's a good damn start.
 

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Yes, chicks with great attitudes should always get rewarded with your sausage!
 

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This is what I love about San Francisco, man - the women. So many 8/9's everywhere.

There's this girl, and there's a bartender at the bar my wingman and I go to a lot. Super sexy - but the IOI's are hard to read, because... you know, she's paid to flirt for tips.

I've always equated bartenders with strippers - makes you feel great for a bit, but it'll probably never happen. Got any advice for that?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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invite your hot friend to join you for coffee there. let the barista see. flirt you ass off with your friend and get her laughing really hard so she can hear. invite her for a drink at a nearby bar after her shift.
 
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