Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Pick up girls in China

CDogg

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wussup guys, glad the DJ forums back!

I was born in Beijing and grown up in North Europe, all my girls been white(not much asian chicks in here), I'm currently going to work in a company in Beijing for 3 months. I've never had a asian girlfriend, im just want to know if anybody here from china or somewhere close, how do you pick up a girl in China and where(clubs,bars.....)? Is it the same as in western countries??

Thanks for help!

Sorry for my english
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Chillisauce

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I think a question you should answer first:

Are there any girls in China?
What with the birth limit and parents wanting boys coupled with their marriage agreements.

Do you speak the common dialect spoken in Beijing?
 

TheFlyingMan

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well being asian and having been to China recently, you have an advantage being a foreigner. I think the principles are pretty much the same, I went to the clubs there and saw ****loads of AFCs...then again I'm not a DJ, I'm pretty ****. I get a few girls when I go asia because I'm asian, tall, westernised, and not bad looking. (wierd, actually, since some girls rate me 9/10 to 10/10 while others rate me 5/10). Not because my game is all that good. My confidence and confidence sky rockets while I'm there though so I know that counts for a lot.

The only thing is, do you speak Mandarin? I don't know how things would work if they couldn't udnerstand you.
 

Big Eee Zee

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I'd be wary, I have heard strange reports from aisa-land from first and second hand accounts.

Girls are odd, some are terribly easy, some will latch on and seek validation/relationships, its a strange culture compared to ours.

Go have a blast, just keep your eyes open. Dont wanna get into an ugly situation with an ugly woman.
 

Eulogy

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Just walk around waving an american dollar bill.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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everywomanshero

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Eulogy said:
Just walk around waving an american dollar bill.
OK that was funny!

I've never been to China, but how hard could it be? Women there are so desperate for Westernization they marry old geezers who couldn't get laid in a nursing home with 5 women to every 1 man. I used to work at an Internet company, these old weirdos would come in with their mail order brides to show them off from time to time. I cannot imagine a situation where you couldn't pickup a different girl every night. Why don't you create some pen pals with foriegn chicks before you go? LIne them up to insure the language barrier doesn't stop you by having prescreened English speakers ready to go. I'd also find some Westernized men living there for specific details on the best way to pick them up. Look up Elvis Preston King, he uses a scam in DR that might be transferable to China.
 

noneother

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just out of curiousity what area are you involved professionally?
 
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