"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Pick up girls in China

CDogg

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wussup guys, glad the DJ forums back!

I was born in Beijing and grown up in North Europe, all my girls been white(not much asian chicks in here), I'm currently going to work in a company in Beijing for 3 months. I've never had a asian girlfriend, im just want to know if anybody here from china or somewhere close, how do you pick up a girl in China and where(clubs,bars.....)? Is it the same as in western countries??

Thanks for help!

Sorry for my english
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Chillisauce

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I think a question you should answer first:

Are there any girls in China?
What with the birth limit and parents wanting boys coupled with their marriage agreements.

Do you speak the common dialect spoken in Beijing?
 

TheFlyingMan

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well being asian and having been to China recently, you have an advantage being a foreigner. I think the principles are pretty much the same, I went to the clubs there and saw ****loads of AFCs...then again I'm not a DJ, I'm pretty ****. I get a few girls when I go asia because I'm asian, tall, westernised, and not bad looking. (wierd, actually, since some girls rate me 9/10 to 10/10 while others rate me 5/10). Not because my game is all that good. My confidence and confidence sky rockets while I'm there though so I know that counts for a lot.

The only thing is, do you speak Mandarin? I don't know how things would work if they couldn't udnerstand you.
 

Big Eee Zee

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I'd be wary, I have heard strange reports from aisa-land from first and second hand accounts.

Girls are odd, some are terribly easy, some will latch on and seek validation/relationships, its a strange culture compared to ours.

Go have a blast, just keep your eyes open. Dont wanna get into an ugly situation with an ugly woman.
 

Eulogy

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Just walk around waving an american dollar bill.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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everywomanshero

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Eulogy said:
Just walk around waving an american dollar bill.
OK that was funny!

I've never been to China, but how hard could it be? Women there are so desperate for Westernization they marry old geezers who couldn't get laid in a nursing home with 5 women to every 1 man. I used to work at an Internet company, these old weirdos would come in with their mail order brides to show them off from time to time. I cannot imagine a situation where you couldn't pickup a different girl every night. Why don't you create some pen pals with foriegn chicks before you go? LIne them up to insure the language barrier doesn't stop you by having prescreened English speakers ready to go. I'd also find some Westernized men living there for specific details on the best way to pick them up. Look up Elvis Preston King, he uses a scam in DR that might be transferable to China.
 

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just out of curiousity what area are you involved professionally?
 
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