"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Pick up girls in China

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CDogg

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wussup guys, glad the DJ forums back!

I was born in Beijing and grown up in North Europe, all my girls been white(not much asian chicks in here), I'm currently going to work in a company in Beijing for 3 months. I've never had a asian girlfriend, im just want to know if anybody here from china or somewhere close, how do you pick up a girl in China and where(clubs,bars.....)? Is it the same as in western countries??

Thanks for help!

Sorry for my english
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Chillisauce

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I think a question you should answer first:

Are there any girls in China?
What with the birth limit and parents wanting boys coupled with their marriage agreements.

Do you speak the common dialect spoken in Beijing?
 
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well being asian and having been to China recently, you have an advantage being a foreigner. I think the principles are pretty much the same, I went to the clubs there and saw ****loads of AFCs...then again I'm not a DJ, I'm pretty ****. I get a few girls when I go asia because I'm asian, tall, westernised, and not bad looking. (wierd, actually, since some girls rate me 9/10 to 10/10 while others rate me 5/10). Not because my game is all that good. My confidence and confidence sky rockets while I'm there though so I know that counts for a lot.

The only thing is, do you speak Mandarin? I don't know how things would work if they couldn't udnerstand you.
 
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I'd be wary, I have heard strange reports from aisa-land from first and second hand accounts.

Girls are odd, some are terribly easy, some will latch on and seek validation/relationships, its a strange culture compared to ours.

Go have a blast, just keep your eyes open. Dont wanna get into an ugly situation with an ugly woman.
 
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Just walk around waving an american dollar bill.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Eulogy said:
Just walk around waving an american dollar bill.
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OK that was funny!

I've never been to China, but how hard could it be? Women there are so desperate for Westernization they marry old geezers who couldn't get laid in a nursing home with 5 women to every 1 man. I used to work at an Internet company, these old weirdos would come in with their mail order brides to show them off from time to time. I cannot imagine a situation where you couldn't pickup a different girl every night. Why don't you create some pen pals with foriegn chicks before you go? LIne them up to insure the language barrier doesn't stop you by having prescreened English speakers ready to go. I'd also find some Westernized men living there for specific details on the best way to pick them up. Look up Elvis Preston King, he uses a scam in DR that might be transferable to China.
 
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just out of curiousity what area are you involved professionally?
 
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