"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Physicality Is Our Relationship

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Hey Playas.

I am finally back after deciding to straighten out my very messed up personal love life. I can happily report that I have found myself a HB8 with no problems, who loves to hang out with me and is by far the greatest female I have ever dealt with. I therefore made her my Girlfriend.

Don't worry. I did not go AFC on her and basically kept my eye on the ball. Needless to say that I walked away with sex and everything in about 2 1/2 weeks. She was a virgin and had a 7 month relationship with some chump, who could not get the job done obviously. I did not get emotional sloppy 2nd's either, she got out of that relationship about 6 months ago, she never even cared for the guy.

I am perfectly content with everything ... EXCEPT ... I just stumbled on a very important death trap. A "PHYSICAL" relationship ... yes, I said it. Everytime my GF and I got together she always let me do anything I ever wanted to do, so basically we never did anything other then hang out at each other's houses. Just this very week, I noticed that she acted differently. I investigated and took a stab in the dark and found out that she felt that our entire relationship was mostly physical. Now Guys, I was facing a very important decision ... lose this girl and keep messing around ... or TEMPORARILY suspend physicality (sexual) and rebuild our relationship with more normal couple activities. I choose the latter and it helped me alot. We are talking more and discovering things about each other we never knew, we still makeout and have fun ... but heavy physiciality is not on the agenda.

The morale of this story is that even though, SoSuave teaches you about values and the DJ code ... sometimes you need to be a man and take a hit. Its not AFC but a small baby step in the right direction. So next time when your contemplating if you should be the DJ or a MAN in the presence of you girl in a situation like this ... I hope you know what to do.

Peace.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Anyone having experienced similar behaviour and wants to post their story, do so. Tips / Trick / Advice are always welcome.
 

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read the post from Tantric about "I am leaving SOSUAVE"

he lost his girl because it was all sex and nothing more, he couldnt open up
 

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That post is a perfect example. Any other DJ's got more info?
 
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