"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Physicality Is Our Relationship

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Hey Playas.

I am finally back after deciding to straighten out my very messed up personal love life. I can happily report that I have found myself a HB8 with no problems, who loves to hang out with me and is by far the greatest female I have ever dealt with. I therefore made her my Girlfriend.

Don't worry. I did not go AFC on her and basically kept my eye on the ball. Needless to say that I walked away with sex and everything in about 2 1/2 weeks. She was a virgin and had a 7 month relationship with some chump, who could not get the job done obviously. I did not get emotional sloppy 2nd's either, she got out of that relationship about 6 months ago, she never even cared for the guy.

I am perfectly content with everything ... EXCEPT ... I just stumbled on a very important death trap. A "PHYSICAL" relationship ... yes, I said it. Everytime my GF and I got together she always let me do anything I ever wanted to do, so basically we never did anything other then hang out at each other's houses. Just this very week, I noticed that she acted differently. I investigated and took a stab in the dark and found out that she felt that our entire relationship was mostly physical. Now Guys, I was facing a very important decision ... lose this girl and keep messing around ... or TEMPORARILY suspend physicality (sexual) and rebuild our relationship with more normal couple activities. I choose the latter and it helped me alot. We are talking more and discovering things about each other we never knew, we still makeout and have fun ... but heavy physiciality is not on the agenda.

The morale of this story is that even though, SoSuave teaches you about values and the DJ code ... sometimes you need to be a man and take a hit. Its not AFC but a small baby step in the right direction. So next time when your contemplating if you should be the DJ or a MAN in the presence of you girl in a situation like this ... I hope you know what to do.

Peace.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Anyone having experienced similar behaviour and wants to post their story, do so. Tips / Trick / Advice are always welcome.
 

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read the post from Tantric about "I am leaving SOSUAVE"

he lost his girl because it was all sex and nothing more, he couldnt open up
 

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That post is a perfect example. Any other DJ's got more info?
 
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