"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Photographing approach.

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First of all, I do come off with some strange and sometimes BAD ideas, just gimme your thoughts :) Keep the flaming low.

I was thinking of using my Digital Camera a lot more, let me explain.

This is my idea:
Everytime I walk somewhere and spot a really beautiful girl, I will stop her and say : "hey I'm bladeux, I'm currently working on a project for school. I have this class where we take pictures (photo class DO exist in Canada, I don't know about other places) and this week's theme is LOVE, will you take a picture with me?" Then you take the picture with her, exchange names, and then ask for email/number. Then say "I need to get going, I have a lot more work to do, nice to meet you :)"
I think it's a great cold approach.

Then after, with all the pictures of girls you have, you can upload the pictures on a website, then show them to every girl you took pictures of (or even girls you didn't photograph). They will feel like you're a challenge since they know you're going to date some of them.
I believe it's a WIN-WIN situation.

Also, all your friends will think you kick*ss seeing you with all thoses chicks ;)

Again, this can be a bad idea, just give me your thoughts :) Positive or negative.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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it might come across a bit needy/weird, but otherwise it could turn out well.

try it out and report back!
 
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Well the thing is, I'm only asking for a little picture with her, and I pretend it's for a SCHOOL project, so I think the chances that she says yes are really high.

I think that since you're saying that it's for a school project, you don't come off as "needy".

Anyway, most of girls love taking pictures, especially the pretty ones.

Just a thought.

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Dude, First its corney second. No. If you want her in a picture tell her she is beautiful and if she wouldn't mind having a picture. This way maybe she will think your intrested in her. Not on passing a bogus school project.

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telling her its for a school project and then asking her for her number WILL NOT WORK

she will think you were trying to deceive her, and that you are unconfident by pretending it was something else

the digital camera thing is great, but if your already hanging with the chick is when you should use it
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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ugh this is the worst idea I ever heard
 
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