"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Photographing approach.

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First of all, I do come off with some strange and sometimes BAD ideas, just gimme your thoughts :) Keep the flaming low.

I was thinking of using my Digital Camera a lot more, let me explain.

This is my idea:
Everytime I walk somewhere and spot a really beautiful girl, I will stop her and say : "hey I'm bladeux, I'm currently working on a project for school. I have this class where we take pictures (photo class DO exist in Canada, I don't know about other places) and this week's theme is LOVE, will you take a picture with me?" Then you take the picture with her, exchange names, and then ask for email/number. Then say "I need to get going, I have a lot more work to do, nice to meet you :)"
I think it's a great cold approach.

Then after, with all the pictures of girls you have, you can upload the pictures on a website, then show them to every girl you took pictures of (or even girls you didn't photograph). They will feel like you're a challenge since they know you're going to date some of them.
I believe it's a WIN-WIN situation.

Also, all your friends will think you kick*ss seeing you with all thoses chicks ;)

Again, this can be a bad idea, just give me your thoughts :) Positive or negative.
 

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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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it might come across a bit needy/weird, but otherwise it could turn out well.

try it out and report back!
 

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Well the thing is, I'm only asking for a little picture with her, and I pretend it's for a SCHOOL project, so I think the chances that she says yes are really high.

I think that since you're saying that it's for a school project, you don't come off as "needy".

Anyway, most of girls love taking pictures, especially the pretty ones.

Just a thought.

:)
 

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Dude, First its corney second. No. If you want her in a picture tell her she is beautiful and if she wouldn't mind having a picture. This way maybe she will think your intrested in her. Not on passing a bogus school project.

G-E-D
 

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telling her its for a school project and then asking her for her number WILL NOT WORK

she will think you were trying to deceive her, and that you are unconfident by pretending it was something else

the digital camera thing is great, but if your already hanging with the chick is when you should use it
 

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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

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ugh this is the worst idea I ever heard
 
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