"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

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Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

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Photographing approach.

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First of all, I do come off with some strange and sometimes BAD ideas, just gimme your thoughts :) Keep the flaming low.

I was thinking of using my Digital Camera a lot more, let me explain.

This is my idea:
Everytime I walk somewhere and spot a really beautiful girl, I will stop her and say : "hey I'm bladeux, I'm currently working on a project for school. I have this class where we take pictures (photo class DO exist in Canada, I don't know about other places) and this week's theme is LOVE, will you take a picture with me?" Then you take the picture with her, exchange names, and then ask for email/number. Then say "I need to get going, I have a lot more work to do, nice to meet you :)"
I think it's a great cold approach.

Then after, with all the pictures of girls you have, you can upload the pictures on a website, then show them to every girl you took pictures of (or even girls you didn't photograph). They will feel like you're a challenge since they know you're going to date some of them.
I believe it's a WIN-WIN situation.

Also, all your friends will think you kick*ss seeing you with all thoses chicks ;)

Again, this can be a bad idea, just give me your thoughts :) Positive or negative.
 

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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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it might come across a bit needy/weird, but otherwise it could turn out well.

try it out and report back!
 
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Well the thing is, I'm only asking for a little picture with her, and I pretend it's for a SCHOOL project, so I think the chances that she says yes are really high.

I think that since you're saying that it's for a school project, you don't come off as "needy".

Anyway, most of girls love taking pictures, especially the pretty ones.

Just a thought.

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Dude, First its corney second. No. If you want her in a picture tell her she is beautiful and if she wouldn't mind having a picture. This way maybe she will think your intrested in her. Not on passing a bogus school project.

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telling her its for a school project and then asking her for her number WILL NOT WORK

she will think you were trying to deceive her, and that you are unconfident by pretending it was something else

the digital camera thing is great, but if your already hanging with the chick is when you should use it
 

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Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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ugh this is the worst idea I ever heard
 
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