the thing is i got the phone # of this chick that was the easy part. The thing i really hate is talking to her on the phone and then telling her some bull**** lie to hang up with her. I dont like to be on the phone but i hate hanging up the phone when talking to her i can never come up with any good excuses. what can i say that will make her come back for more?
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Phone question, hanging up excuses...
- Thread starter nosir
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
ashman1
Don Juan
i understand . . .
heres what i do :
first off let her know at the beginning of the call, that you cant stay on long
that way she already knows that she should keep her call breif .
second , just tell her " you have to go " you really dont have to give her a reason. just " i have to go " it works all the time , try it . - N
heres what i do :
first off let her know at the beginning of the call, that you cant stay on long
that way she already knows that she should keep her call breif .
second , just tell her " you have to go " you really dont have to give her a reason. just " i have to go " it works all the time , try it . - N
you tell her u can talk for a lil bit..after like 10 mins u tell you have to do something and will talk to her later.nosir said:so if she calls me and asks me if im busy should i say no then later on when i dont want to talk no more say i have to go? what if its 2 am and you live in a small town with nothing to do, what do you do then?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
don't give her a reason. Just say talk to you later, bye. It will make her think your bored with her or she messed up. It will add to your mystery. If she asks if your busy tell her yes, but can spare a couple minutes. You don't need to give excuses and when you do, you give her power over you
haha, i like the yea i'll call you back later on...
then don't clal them for a day or 2 and finally when you speak to them be like "hey just calling you back" haha i bet you if i girl is real interested she'll be going nuts for that time period.
then don't clal them for a day or 2 and finally when you speak to them be like "hey just calling you back" haha i bet you if i girl is real interested she'll be going nuts for that time period.
My girl told me a story about her yesterday for 25 min without taking a breath, I put the phone down on my bed, brushed my teeth, put in the laundry I came back 10 min later,,,,,, WORD TO EVERYTHING shes still talking thinking that Im listening...horaholic said:Tell her you hate talking on the phone for long periods, and if she wants to hang out, come over. Tell her men aren't phone talkers. I promise she wont break up with you for it.
If I tell her keep it brief shell get mad and hang up,,,, MEN ARE NOT PHONE TALKERS.....
HOW DO I SHUT HER UP MAN!!!
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
I LIKE THAT... I DO IT ALOT UN-INTENTIALLYcyp6 said:hey let me call you back! this works all the time.. they will expect you call them back.... but if you don't do it for a while.... your golden the next time you call them.