the thing is i got the phone # of this chick that was the easy part. The thing i really hate is talking to her on the phone and then telling her some bull**** lie to hang up with her. I dont like to be on the phone but i hate hanging up the phone when talking to her i can never come up with any good excuses. what can i say that will make her come back for more?
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Phone question, hanging up excuses...
- Thread starter nosir
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
ashman1
Don Juan
i understand . . .
heres what i do :
first off let her know at the beginning of the call, that you cant stay on long
that way she already knows that she should keep her call breif .
second , just tell her " you have to go " you really dont have to give her a reason. just " i have to go " it works all the time , try it . - N
heres what i do :
first off let her know at the beginning of the call, that you cant stay on long
that way she already knows that she should keep her call breif .
second , just tell her " you have to go " you really dont have to give her a reason. just " i have to go " it works all the time , try it . - N
you tell her u can talk for a lil bit..after like 10 mins u tell you have to do something and will talk to her later.nosir said:so if she calls me and asks me if im busy should i say no then later on when i dont want to talk no more say i have to go? what if its 2 am and you live in a small town with nothing to do, what do you do then?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
don't give her a reason. Just say talk to you later, bye. It will make her think your bored with her or she messed up. It will add to your mystery. If she asks if your busy tell her yes, but can spare a couple minutes. You don't need to give excuses and when you do, you give her power over you
haha, i like the yea i'll call you back later on...
then don't clal them for a day or 2 and finally when you speak to them be like "hey just calling you back" haha i bet you if i girl is real interested she'll be going nuts for that time period.
then don't clal them for a day or 2 and finally when you speak to them be like "hey just calling you back" haha i bet you if i girl is real interested she'll be going nuts for that time period.
My girl told me a story about her yesterday for 25 min without taking a breath, I put the phone down on my bed, brushed my teeth, put in the laundry I came back 10 min later,,,,,, WORD TO EVERYTHING shes still talking thinking that Im listening...horaholic said:Tell her you hate talking on the phone for long periods, and if she wants to hang out, come over. Tell her men aren't phone talkers. I promise she wont break up with you for it.
If I tell her keep it brief shell get mad and hang up,,,, MEN ARE NOT PHONE TALKERS.....
HOW DO I SHUT HER UP MAN!!!
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
I LIKE THAT... I DO IT ALOT UN-INTENTIALLYcyp6 said:hey let me call you back! this works all the time.. they will expect you call them back.... but if you don't do it for a while.... your golden the next time you call them.