the thing is i got the phone # of this chick that was the easy part. The thing i really hate is talking to her on the phone and then telling her some bull**** lie to hang up with her. I dont like to be on the phone but i hate hanging up the phone when talking to her i can never come up with any good excuses. what can i say that will make her come back for more?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Phone question, hanging up excuses...
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
ashman1
Don Juan
i understand . . .
heres what i do :
first off let her know at the beginning of the call, that you cant stay on long
that way she already knows that she should keep her call breif .
second , just tell her " you have to go " you really dont have to give her a reason. just " i have to go " it works all the time , try it . - N
heres what i do :
first off let her know at the beginning of the call, that you cant stay on long
that way she already knows that she should keep her call breif .
second , just tell her " you have to go " you really dont have to give her a reason. just " i have to go " it works all the time , try it . - N
you tell her u can talk for a lil bit..after like 10 mins u tell you have to do something and will talk to her later.nosir said:so if she calls me and asks me if im busy should i say no then later on when i dont want to talk no more say i have to go? what if its 2 am and you live in a small town with nothing to do, what do you do then?
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
don't give her a reason. Just say talk to you later, bye. It will make her think your bored with her or she messed up. It will add to your mystery. If she asks if your busy tell her yes, but can spare a couple minutes. You don't need to give excuses and when you do, you give her power over you
haha, i like the yea i'll call you back later on...
then don't clal them for a day or 2 and finally when you speak to them be like "hey just calling you back" haha i bet you if i girl is real interested she'll be going nuts for that time period.
then don't clal them for a day or 2 and finally when you speak to them be like "hey just calling you back" haha i bet you if i girl is real interested she'll be going nuts for that time period.
My girl told me a story about her yesterday for 25 min without taking a breath, I put the phone down on my bed, brushed my teeth, put in the laundry I came back 10 min later,,,,,, WORD TO EVERYTHING shes still talking thinking that Im listening...horaholic said:Tell her you hate talking on the phone for long periods, and if she wants to hang out, come over. Tell her men aren't phone talkers. I promise she wont break up with you for it.
If I tell her keep it brief shell get mad and hang up,,,, MEN ARE NOT PHONE TALKERS.....
HOW DO I SHUT HER UP MAN!!!
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
I LIKE THAT... I DO IT ALOT UN-INTENTIALLYcyp6 said:hey let me call you back! this works all the time.. they will expect you call them back.... but if you don't do it for a while.... your golden the next time you call them.