"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Phone Problem

djweses89

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yea i just got done talkin to this chick im tryin to get wit on the phone was first phone convo or w/e and it lasted 20 min regular first time talk time. but she was the one to end the convo i was goin to but i couldnt find a outing. Was j/w is this a bad thing or is it not a big deal.and i didnt get to tell her to call me back sometime
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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personalopinion..

You think too much. Who cares. You got to talk to her for 10 more minutes then planned, and if it had a good vibe, are you complaining? I'll gladly take your position.

/personalopinion

Damn..just call her up sometime when you're heading out somewhere...
 

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i was j/w makin sure wasnt a bad thing man cus shes acually pretty cool . cooler than alot of the girls i know so not tryin to F things up on this one. And im not a big phone person i just recently started calling alot more girls i used to hardly never talk on the phone so idk how the whole thing works yet.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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