"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Phone Problem

djweses89

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yea i just got done talkin to this chick im tryin to get wit on the phone was first phone convo or w/e and it lasted 20 min regular first time talk time. but she was the one to end the convo i was goin to but i couldnt find a outing. Was j/w is this a bad thing or is it not a big deal.and i didnt get to tell her to call me back sometime
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Docs

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personalopinion..

You think too much. Who cares. You got to talk to her for 10 more minutes then planned, and if it had a good vibe, are you complaining? I'll gladly take your position.

/personalopinion

Damn..just call her up sometime when you're heading out somewhere...
 

djweses89

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i was j/w makin sure wasnt a bad thing man cus shes acually pretty cool . cooler than alot of the girls i know so not tryin to F things up on this one. And im not a big phone person i just recently started calling alot more girls i used to hardly never talk on the phone so idk how the whole thing works yet.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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