"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Phone Problem

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yea i just got done talkin to this chick im tryin to get wit on the phone was first phone convo or w/e and it lasted 20 min regular first time talk time. but she was the one to end the convo i was goin to but i couldnt find a outing. Was j/w is this a bad thing or is it not a big deal.and i didnt get to tell her to call me back sometime
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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personalopinion..

You think too much. Who cares. You got to talk to her for 10 more minutes then planned, and if it had a good vibe, are you complaining? I'll gladly take your position.

/personalopinion

Damn..just call her up sometime when you're heading out somewhere...
 

djweses89

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i was j/w makin sure wasnt a bad thing man cus shes acually pretty cool . cooler than alot of the girls i know so not tryin to F things up on this one. And im not a big phone person i just recently started calling alot more girls i used to hardly never talk on the phone so idk how the whole thing works yet.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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