"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Philosophical dilemma . . .

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Hi guys . . .

. . . Just something that's kind of been on my mind for a while . :crazy: . .I consider myself a pretty confident and staightforward person, and seldom have issues about speaking my mind . . .

. . . . . . . .Moreover . .I actually enjoy telling some women that I find them pretty / attractive in a playful but sincere manner . . . . . .

. . . .What's yr take on this . . .Does that damage yr chances . . .I simply see too many guys hover around pretty girls and try build themselves up et.c which normally involves a lot of bull and does not usually work, as girls can normally see right through that IMHO . ..

Is it not easier and more fun to go in guns balzing and see how she respopnds and see what can penetrate their defences????

. . . .. . Answers on a postcard please!:up:
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Being straight forward works for me too. Just be sure not to just use complements in hopes that it alone will gain their interest.
 
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Find things about her that make her unique. If you're going to compliment her, do it regarding something that every guy within a 1/4 mile radius hasn't already picked up on. Show that you have some empathy and insight.

For example, tell her you admire her perspective on something, or that she's clever. Or even that she has a sensual way of doing xxxx. Not that she has beautiful eyes or hair or you like the way her butt wiggles when she walks. (NOTE: you CAN use those once you have the right rapport...sparingly)
 
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Thanks bud . . .

Don't worry please . .I have no moral connundrum about being rude or offending women either . . .The most important thing is that they don't end up feeling neutral about me . . .

. . . Its just I think going about it in a round about way is a sign of weakness and is a sure loser . . .Its a question of finding a woman, looking for the right signals and going for it . . .And more importantly acknowledge the fact that most women are unreciprical and unmoved . . .

. . . . .:rockon:
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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squirrels said:
F the signals. Just go for it.
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Maybe yr right , maybe yr wrong . . .But I feel women that are interested will "allow" you to identify them . . .:rock:
 
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