"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Philosophical dilemma . . .

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Hi guys . . .

. . . Just something that's kind of been on my mind for a while . :crazy: . .I consider myself a pretty confident and staightforward person, and seldom have issues about speaking my mind . . .

. . . . . . . .Moreover . .I actually enjoy telling some women that I find them pretty / attractive in a playful but sincere manner . . . . . .

. . . .What's yr take on this . . .Does that damage yr chances . . .I simply see too many guys hover around pretty girls and try build themselves up et.c which normally involves a lot of bull and does not usually work, as girls can normally see right through that IMHO . ..

Is it not easier and more fun to go in guns balzing and see how she respopnds and see what can penetrate their defences????

. . . .. . Answers on a postcard please!:up:
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Being straight forward works for me too. Just be sure not to just use complements in hopes that it alone will gain their interest.
 
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Find things about her that make her unique. If you're going to compliment her, do it regarding something that every guy within a 1/4 mile radius hasn't already picked up on. Show that you have some empathy and insight.

For example, tell her you admire her perspective on something, or that she's clever. Or even that she has a sensual way of doing xxxx. Not that she has beautiful eyes or hair or you like the way her butt wiggles when she walks. (NOTE: you CAN use those once you have the right rapport...sparingly)
 
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Thanks bud . . .

Don't worry please . .I have no moral connundrum about being rude or offending women either . . .The most important thing is that they don't end up feeling neutral about me . . .

. . . Its just I think going about it in a round about way is a sign of weakness and is a sure loser . . .Its a question of finding a woman, looking for the right signals and going for it . . .And more importantly acknowledge the fact that most women are unreciprical and unmoved . . .

. . . . .:rockon:
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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squirrels said:
F the signals. Just go for it.
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Maybe yr right , maybe yr wrong . . .But I feel women that are interested will "allow" you to identify them . . .:rock:
 
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